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Purpose
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The morning air felt different as I woke up. It's as if the universe had realigned itself, and a new chapter had silently unfolded. My recent encounters---both humbling losses and heartwarming gestures---had become threads in the intricate tapestry of my journey. Once a maze of uncertainty, Buenos Aires now felt like an open book, each page filled with untapped possibilities. I had a new goal: to acquire a bicycle and start my journey to São Paulo. After all, in two months a flight still awaited me --- not homeward to Korea, but onward from São Paulo to Africa --- its e-ticket still valid, and I had time enough to make my own way back to São Paulo, some 2,500 km, by bicycle.
Daniel's response to my plan was nothing short of uplifting. "Don't feel anchored here. You are free to explore," he advised, filling me with a sense of liberation I hadn't felt since my arrival. Earlier, I had posted on the internet an ad offering Korean and Japanese language classes, thanks to a tip from Rebecca. Though my inbox remained empty, my optimism didn't wane.
Venturing into the bustling heart of San Telmo to check the cost of a bicycle, I was greeted by lifeless bicycle shops: a blunt reminder that today was Sunday. Undeterred, I decided to soak in the vibrant surroundings. Street musicians strummed away, artists showcased their work, vendors peddled their wares, and tourists meandered through the crowd. It was a living, breathing ecosystem; I was but a small part of it.
Suddenly, a bold question crossed my mind: Perhaps I can truly be part of this bustling street with my story? Could my story resonate with anyone? Would people even care?" As I wrestled with this idea, I found myself before a cathedral. Its timeworn stones seemed to invite me in, almost as if they had seen countless souls seeking solace. Inside, I sat on an aged pew and prayed---not for divine intervention, but for my courage to take that first step into the unknown and for the wisdom to learn from whatever lay ahead.
As I left the cathedral with a newfound sense of calm, I rejoined the lively streets of San Telmo. My next task was simple: to find a piece of cardboard. This humble sheet would serve as the canvas for my story, inviting others to share my past and the path ahead.
As I walked towards the supermarket, its bright fluorescent lights seemed to beckon me inside. Upon entering, I approached a young staff member and inquired if there were any spare cardboard boxes. The employee met my gaze with a compassionate look and paused his task to provide me with an emptied box. He even got me a marker from a nearby shop.
Gratitude filled me as I settled on a patch of pavement outside the supermarket. I penned my message onto the cardboard with a marker:
"I am a traveler from South Korea. I lost my backpack this week, which contained all the money I had, my passport, credit cards, clothes, camera, etc. Every little bit of help from you will mean a lot to me. I desperately want to be able to continue my trip. Thank you."
As I wrote, I felt the gaze of supermarket employees watching me through the glass doors---sympathy, not judgment, reflecting in their eyes. I returned the marker and used another small box as a makeshift donation pan. With my box set, I wandered into the vibrant streets of Buenos Aires to find my arena.
I selected a spot where the crowd's energy pulsed most vital and propped up my cardboard story for the world to see, with my humble donation box next to me. I sat there not as a beggar, but as a storyteller---my back straight, my eyes meeting those of passersby, and with a smile.
Soon, the cardboard's silent message reached hearts. A curious American tourist was the first to approach. We spoke briefly, and she pulled out 8 pesos in an intimate corner of her attire. Another passerby contributed 2 pesos, and a third generously added ten from an equally personal hiding spot. Though monetarily small, each donation felt like a profound exchange of trust and humanity.
As the crowd thickened, my cardboard sign turned into a conversation starter. People stopped, read, and listened as I narrated my story. Each interaction felt like a tiny bridge being built, a fleeting yet meaningful connection.
When I immersed myself in this newfound community, a face from my homeland appeared. "Are you Korean?" he asked. Our ensuing conversation, now in our mother tongue, led to an invitation. "Come with me," he said. While I was a little hesitant to leave the fun and engaging conversation with the rest of the group, I felt that my encounter with someone from my homeland might be another road to explore, another layer to add to my intricate journey. I picked up my cardboard sign and donation box, offered a heartfelt thank-you to the crowd, and followed my fellow Korean into the labyrinth of Buenos Aires.
He was Ricardo Kim, a second generation Korean-Argentinian with a long ponytail. As we strolled down the San Telmo street, we soon arrived at the antique shop he kept there. Stepping inside, the aroma of old wood mingled with the metallic tang of aged brass enveloped the senses. The dim lighting of the store cast a nostalgic hue, making it feel like a portal to a bygone era. Each item seemed to hum with stories of yesteryears, waiting to share its rich history. Ricardo's wife and another friend greeted us with familiar warmth, both exuding a comforting aura reminiscent of the affection I felt from my own family.
As I shared my recent experiences, I sensed a comforting presence of empathy and understanding. Mr. Baek Munsu, Ricardo's friend, suggested we pause and try some local delicacies. Soon enough, we settled into a small, welcoming restaurant nearby.
We ordered a Milanesa --- a breaded cutlet, much like Korean tonkatsu --- and a beer. Having eaten so little for so long, my stomach filled almost at once, and I could not eat much; yet that early sense of fullness, together with the comfort of conversing in my native language again, brought an emotional relief I had been missing for days.
When we returned to the antique shop, I expressed my desire to find a job. They reassured me that the antique shop or the nearby boutiques might have opportunities available. As they recognized my passport situation, they advised me to prioritize resolving it. Since the antique shop was closed the following day, Ricardo kindly gave me 50 pesos and said to apply for the passport first. I was deeply touched by their unwavering faith in my journey and generosity. Eben's words about the universe's kindness echoed in my mind, reminding me of the insightful wisdom in 'The Alchemist.' It was about a belief that pursuing one's personal legend, or true purpose, is the key to finding joy and meaning in life. The book emphasizes that the universe conspires to help us achieve our dreams and goals when we listen to our hearts and have the courage to follow our destiny.
As I walked back to the hostel, each step felt like a journey of self-reflection. The people I met and the things I learned throughout the day blended, prompting me to contemplate the correlation between the personal will and the generosity of others. It was as though life itself was inviting me to delve into its depths and discover the complex connections that weave our stories together. As I reflected on the theft of my backpack, I came to realize that it may have been more than just a random event. Perhaps it was a message guiding me to change my perspective on the things I thought mattered, and focus on lasting wisdom and an unconditional sense of sufficiency, rather than temporary pleasures and external validation. This inner voice encouraged me to prioritize what truly matters in life.
Upon my return to the hostel, I eagerly shared the day's experiences with my friends. Their astonishment was palpable when they learned that both the antique shop and our hostel were named 'SOL.' It wasn't just a coincidence---it felt like the universe crafting its narrative, intertwining our paths in a dance of destiny. It felt like a cosmic nod, a reassuring wink that the universe was looking out for us.